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7 Unexpected Benefits of Training with People Better (and Worse) Than You

You’ve been training for a while now. You’re not a beginner anymore. You know how to move, lift, sweat. Maybe you’ve found your rhythm. Maybe you’ve even found your crew — that familiar group in class or open gym who all hit roughly the same weights and reps you do.

But here’s the thing no one tells you: if you’re always working out around people at your exact level, you might actually be stalling your growth.

It sounds strange, right? But if no one’s pushing you, and no one’s reminding you where you came from… it’s easy to get stuck.

Here’s what we’ve seen time and time again: people grow faster, stay more motivated, and feel more fulfilled when they train in mixed environments — surrounded by athletes both further ahead and those just getting started.

So let’s break down exactly why.


1. Training with Only Your Equals Can Stunt Your Growth

Working out around people at your level feels safe — but it can also become a trap.

Everyone’s lifting similar weights. Running similar times. Scaling in similar ways. And that means no one is really pushing the edge. There’s an unspoken pressure to keep pace, which makes it hard to:

  • Slow down and refine technique
  • Focus on weaknesses
  • Take deload weeks when needed

Instead of improving, you end up performing. You’re maintaining — not progressing.


2. Being Around Athletes Better Than You Will Raise Your Standard

You know that person who makes your jaw drop every time they squat? Or hits pull-ups like it’s nothing?

That’s your secret weapon.

Training around people who are better than you forces your brain to see what’s possible. You learn faster by observing. You ask questions. You chase new numbers. You start lifting your expectations, not just your weights.

It’s not about competition — it’s about inspiration. Their excellence helps reveal the next version of you.


3. Training Around Beginners Helps You Appreciate Your Journey

We often forget how far we’ve come until someone reminds us.

You see a new member struggling through their first kettlebell swing — and suddenly you remember how awkward you once felt. You spot for someone nervously attempting a lift — and remember your own fear.

It grounds you. It humbles you. And it reminds you to be proud of how far you’ve come, instead of obsessing over how far there is to go.

Plus — helping someone new builds confidence. You become the kind of athlete others look up to. That hits different.


4. You Learn to Coach Yourself by Coaching Others

You don’t need to be a PT to help someone else move better.

Explaining a cue, encouraging good form, or sharing your experience does more than help them — it reinforces what you know. And when you start coaching others informally, something amazing happens:

You start coaching yourself better, too.

You notice your own form more. You hear your own advice in your head mid-set. You stop going through the motions and start training more intentionally.


5. You Feel Less Alone on the Hard Days

On the days you’re tired. On the days you scale everything. On the days you feel slow or frustrated — it’s easy to feel like you don’t belong.

But then you look around. Someone next to you is going heavy. Someone else is taking a break. And someone else is doing their very first workout.

Suddenly, you realise: everyone is working through something. Being surrounded by a range of people makes you feel less alone — and way more normal.

That connection? That’s what keeps you coming back.


6. You Get to Be the Bridge Between Levels

You’re not a newbie anymore. But you’re not elite either. That middle space is powerful — because you get to play both roles:

  • You chase the people ahead of you
  • You lift up the people behind you

This dual perspective makes you more empathetic, more balanced, and more useful in your gym community.

You’re no longer just focused on you. You’re part of something bigger.


7. The Whole Gym Gets Stronger Together

A gym filled with only elite athletes would be intimidating. A gym filled with only beginners would lack momentum.

But a gym that has everyone — from day-one rookies to ten-year beasts? That’s where real magic happens.

It creates a cycle:

  • Beginners are inspired
  • Intermediates are energised
  • Advanced athletes are grounded
  • Everyone feels seen, useful, and connected

That’s the kind of gym people stick with for years — not months.


Lean into the Diversity

You don’t grow in isolation. You grow in community.

So next time you walk into the gym, look around. Train with someone stronger. Encourage someone newer. Ask questions. Offer support. Celebrate someone else’s win.

You don’t need to find “your level.” You just need to find your people — and trust that in a room full of different levels, everyone lifts together. Join us today!

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